Unspoken Truth About Rehoming A Pet


September is National Responsible Dog Ownership Month.

As a Pet Parenting Specialist and Animal Communicator, I've found that being a responsible dog parent is about more than walks, food, and belly rubs.

September's focus on responsible ownership offers us a chance to explore our role as pet guardians.

In just the last few weeks, I’ve had multiple sessions where a loving dog parent asked the gut-wrenching question:

Is my dog better off in a new home?

The decision to rehome a pet is often filled with guilt and shame.

This is tied to the "forever" myth" which is the unrealistic expectation that once a pet joins your family, you must keep them for their entire life.

However, a truly responsible pet parent knows this isn't always possible.

Sometimes, the most loving and courageous act is to rehome a dog, ensuring they have a chance to thrive in a home that's a better fit for their needs.

Here are three stories that show the different paths responsible pet parents take:

  • Kai’s Story: When a city apartment and constant fear became too much, Kai tried to bite a toddler. Emily made the difficult but loving choice to return Kai to his breeder. She knew it was the only way he could feel safe and whole.
  • Angus’s Story: After his fear-based aggression led to him biting, Sue heard Angus when he told her that he didn't feel safe in her home. Sue then made the responsible but heart-wrenching choice to return him to his previous owner.
  • Bennett’s Story: Not every complex case ends in rehoming. When Colette worried Bennett wasn’t a good fit for her cats, he communicated his desire to stay and asked Colette to provide him with the guidance he needed to succeed.

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The truth is, rehoming isn’t a sign of failure.

It can be a courageous act of love to prioritize your dog’s well-being over your own feelings.

If you're struggling with this decision or facing behavioral issues that feel overwhelming, you don't have to carry the weight alone.

I’m here to support you and your pet.

Too many people come to me as a last resort. Tuning in earlier can save you time, money, and a whole lot of stress and anxiety.

Whether you're struggling with behavior issues or just sensing that something isn’t right, I’m here to help you hear what your animal is trying to say so you can make the best decision for both of you.

It’s key to listen to your pet and then act responsibly, even when it breaks your heart.

Happy trails,

Cathy "Cat" Malkin ~The Animal Muse

💞Supporting you and your animal family on your journey together because energy flows both ways.

Animal Communicator • Reiki Master Teacher + Practitioner • Pet Anxiety Expert • Pet Loss Grief Counselor • Pet Parenting Specialist

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Hi, I’m Cat Malkin—The Animal Muse. With 30+ years of experience, I help pets and their pet parents connect, heal, and find peace on a deep heart level. I offer Animal Communication, Animal Reiki, and Pet Loss Grief Counseling. I'm the founder of the Animal Muse Meditation Circle, a unique space where people and their animals meditate together for relaxation and connection. I'm a proud mom to @MayorYogiBear and two curious kittens, Minnie and Finnegan. 💜 Learn more at www.animalmuse.com

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